Alumni

Once you've been a part of the Tandem Friends community, you are always a part of the Tandem Friends community. Our alums are vital to the life of the school, and they feel welcome to return and reconnect. Alums show up for school events, plays, graduation, meeting for worship, and more. Alums frequently stop in for a chat with a favorite teacher. Some come back to coach Tandem Friends School teams. Many alums have returned as parents of Tandem Friends students, adding another generation to this connected community.

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  • Tandem Alum Lily Bechtel '04 (Night Teacher) Shares New ALbum and Local Shows

    Tandem alum Lilly Bechtel '04 is a musician (Night Teacher) and poet who released her latest record, 'Year of the Snake.' on Halloween. Lilly says that it's "a body of work that represents a lot of growth and change for me over the past several years, and I am proud to finally see it unfurl out into the world." Making the album, Lilly has shared, "represents an honoring of what is primal, and by that I mean what is primary: the work of surviving in this world. That work, for me, has been inseparable from the practice of art; of trying to listen to and respect the wisdom of my own body - the place where messages of threat arise - but also the wisdom of healing." Lilly also shares in her posts what it means to be an artist: "I am an artist making work in this troubled world because the practice soothes and sustains me. And the further I forge ahead into this life, the more I recognize the need we all share for those kinds of practices that bring us closer to our own delight. So that is what I leave you with as we move towards the Holidaze and the end of another year; may we all remember and cultivate that quiet, mysterious space for ourselves- wherever we find it and whatever it is."

    You can catch Lilly performing locally on Friday Dec 19th, when Night Teacher will play an acoustic duo show with Jordan Perry at  Potter's Craft Cider from 6-9 pm in Charlottesville, with fellow alum (and brother) Adam Bechtel '02 kicking off the evening with a solo set. The event is free and open to the public. On March 7th at The Southern, Night Teacher will play a record release show as a full band, with the support of local legend Diane Cluck. - save the date for that one. As for Year of the Snake, you can listen to it on SpotifyiTunes, buy it on Bandcamp, watch videos on YouTube, or buy the here. You can join  the Night Teacher mailing list here to stay tuned to upcoming releases and events. 
  • Alumni vs Varsity Basketball Game Brings Badger Fun to Gym

    The gym was full of young and old Badger energy on November 25 as alumni former basketball players gathered to take on our varsity boys team. With Gordon Fields as their coach, and alum Gabe Perkinson '06 on the bench to add advice and encouragement, the alums met at 6pm to warm up and take on a younger  team that has been practicing and conditioning together all year. Alum players ranged in graduation year from '05 to '25, and included Alden Scott '24, Ford Scott '21, Matt Meriwether '05, JD Verniero '07, Peter Cathcart '13, Jacob Camarata '24, Jordan Anderson '23, Latrell Winkey '18, Amir Gregory '25, Matt Mahoney '11 and Scottie Chambers '15. The gym was filled with current and past students and parents, and current and past faculty. There were alumni children and the Student Senate sold snacks. The varsity, coached by Sam Dale, got off to a lead in the first quarter, but the score was almost tied at the half. There were referees on hand for the game, but there's always a little good-natured rule-bending fun in this friendly competition. The second half found the alums slowing down a bit and the deep varsity bench picking up points to win 74-62, the first varsity win in several years. As Gordon says, "We connected the old with the new - that's the goal. We're all Tandem so we all won!"
  • Turkey Bowl Brings Soccer Field to Life after Thanksgiving

    We had a great group at this year's John A. Davis Memorial Turkey Bowl, held the day after Thanksgiving on the soccer field. The Turkey Bowl unites Tandem community members of all types - past and present, young and old - in a fun few hours of referee-free, high-scoring soccer playing and camaraderie to work off some post-Thanksgiving lethargy. The event has been a Tandem tradition for years, but was renamed to memorialize former teacher and soccer coach John Davis after his death in 2016. Many thanks to the folks who turned out to play and connect, and to Tiffany Norman, Nemanja Cetic and Tracy Proctor, for running the gathering. It was a lovely day for Badger soccer.
  • Tandem Alum Debuts in Thailand Professional Basketball League

    We're so proud to share that Tandem alum Dean Lockley (TFS '20) is now in Thailand playing professional basketball in the TEBA Unsigned league on the Udon Thani Volcanoes team. Dean made his season premiere as a guard on October 24, scoring 22 points and getting 11 rebounds! Their next game is October 31 - some games stream on Ignite Sports TV. The league has a short season and players compete to earn a signed position on a TEBA league team. Dean played guard here at Tandem, then played for Longwood University and Bryant and Stratton College. Good luck, Dean!
  • Alumni Spotlight: Recent Alum Continues with Journalism at Vassar

    The Tandem community enjoyed a recent visit to campus from Eli Lerdau, Class of 2025. Eli was co-editor of our Tandem Times student newspaper and author of several letters to the editor that were published in the Daily Progress over the past few years. As a first-year student at Vassar College, Eli continues to voice his concerns about the federal government's attempts to limit University independence with a recent piece that was published in the Vassar student newspaper, The Miscellany News. Keep sharing your powerful voice, Eli (wearing a nametag in the photo)!
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